fascism: a populist political philosophy, movement, or regime (such as that of the Fascisti) that exalts nation and often race above the individual, that is associated with a centralized autocratic government headed by a dictatorial leader, and that is characterized by severe economic and social regimentation and by forcible suppression of opposition
1) I think the gun laws in the US are horrible. gun ownership should require permits, proper training, and regular psychiatric evaluations. I was incarcerated in a hospital because certain physicians felt I had an eating disorder and was a 'danger to myself or others' but any nutcase can come in off the street and buy a gun?
2) biologically there are only two sexes. I do not believe the concept of gender has any concrete definition. that is the problem; everyone has their own ideas about what it means to be a man or a woman and the difference in opinion is what causes the conflict. as somewhat of a 'tomboy' (and I believe my mother was also one especially in her younger days), I think I can identify with both 'genders'. I think it is probably a good thing to be able to empathize with people who are different from me. however, I'm not going to ask people to use different pronouns. English is difficult enough as it is and the concept of 'gender' as masculine and feminine is embedded in all the romance languages.
3) Mr. Kirk has a very quaint idea of what American society should be: one man, one woman, lots of kids, a picket fence, and a golden retriever. This is the idealized culture of the 1950s and I agree that generation was really the greatest before computers took over everything. that being said, I do not presume to tell anyone else how to live their lives or what should make them happy. it is not the role of the state to legislate morality. this is where fascism comes in, when the government attempts to force citizens to adopt a particular moral code and/or societal standards at the expense of civil liberty and to forcibly stamp out any opposition. Trump and his supporters (i.e. Mr. Kirk) are walking a very fine line in this respect.
4) no husband is that perfect. when Mr. Kirk asked his wife what he could do to be a better man, I would like to know what she said in reply. obviously, his widow is not going to divulge all of his faults on national TV. I would also argue that he was asking the wrong person. it is not his wife that Mr. Kirk is meant to serve. He should have been directing his question to God.
5) in Christian doctrine, it is wrong to murder but killing is acceptable in the context of self-defense. legally, this definition pertains only to direct attacks against one's personal safety but at the national and global level the societal definition is extended to include property (i.e. cities, territories, homes, etc.) and differences of ideology (i.e. Christianity, Islam, Communism, etc.). this is the primary justification for most wars and why soldiers are generally exempt from murder charges (unless in violation of the Geneva Convention which protects injured and captured combatants and civilians as well as those who serve them).
some FBI data suggests that hate crimes against trans-gender people are increasing. I think this is evidence that no one really likes them. they are viewed as strange, unnatural and make most other people uncomfortable in public places. even certain factions of the homosexual and feminist movements have rejected them because their mere existence undermines the validity of these other groups. it is not surprising that the trans-gender community is lashing out now that they have lost government protection; they are scared. regardless of the religious/philosophical rationalization for taking another human life, this is just basic human nature.
6) The right to an abortion has not killed a single human being*. The law does not force anyone to terminate their pregnancy; it is a choice each person is allowed to make for themselves. Access to this technology is critical in medically necessary cases (e.g. ectopic pregnancy). it is wrong to impose a particular moral standard on someone when that standard may require them to sacrifice their own life. Killing is justified when it is done in the context of self defense. sometimes it is necessary to kill an unborn baby to defend the life of the mother. in these cases, abortion is justified. however, it is impossible to legislate all possible exceptions and potentially tie the hands of doctors who must make split second decisions in emergency situations. abortion is just one more tool at their disposal when they are trying to save the life of their patients. the moral implications should not enter into the medical differential when the options are presented to the patient.
that being said, termination should always be the last option. adoption services, counseling, low income options for housing, and prenatal care should all be made available. however, these things are often not considered when people talk about abortion as the discussions are mostly centered around the philosophical definition of a human life. no thought is given to the practical implications of bringing that life into the world. ideally, this should be considered before an individual gets pregnant.
*member of the species H. sapien
7) religion and politics have no place in the public school system. this is a venue for teaching math, science, history (accurately, without bias), and the arts. the goal should be to enrich the mind so that each student can know the truth and form his own world view. instilling children with a moral compass is the role of their parents not a government informed school curriculum. if some parents have particularly strong political and/or moral views, they are free to home-school their children; this is probably a more effective method anyway.